Battle Field Induced Psychic Disturbances (BFIPD): The cause, and why conventional Western treatment approaches for “Post Traumatic Stress Disorder” (PTSD) are ineffective—Mind-Body-Spirit connection to healing of BFIPD.
I will begin by explaining to the readers that the term (BFIPD) is not a disorder in The American Psychiatric Association (APA) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM). It’s the term I have use to reflect the true nature of psychic disturbances people experience when exposed to horrific events of war either as soldiers or civilians. APA classified this in general term as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). From my clinical healing perspective and experience, war induced disturbances does not constitute disorder/s. It does not mean the individuals struggling with these experiences are mentally sick and need psychoactive medication to feel better.
I would also like to refresh the knowledge of the reader on three important components of a human being—the mind, body and spirit all interconnected to one. I will also explain what trauma is and how traumatic experience affects these levels of the body. My personal life experience and stories are shared in this text to elucidate the case made.
Trauma is any event or experience which could be physical, emotional or spiritual in nature that cause conflict or psychic effect within that region in every human being Juan once described as the collective unconscious. Trauma or psychic conflict occurs when the event or experience forces the conscious mind to address buried issues in the collective unconscious which the conscious mind was not prepared to address. In many cases, these issues surfacing to the conscious mind are past lives issues carried over to the present life buried deep inside the unconscious mind.
For the purpose of this discussion, most people would agree that all human beings originate from one source regardless where one was born, what region of the world he or she resides in or what one’s cultural background or belief system is. One of the most important characteristics we all share in common is our soul or spirit, whatever term one feels comfortable using. The physical body eventually separates from the spirit body through the process we all know as death. The spirit part of us continues living after the physical body dies and reincarnates to a new life carrying with it every single previous life experience.
Life after the death of the physical body is one aspect of life scientists, academicians and theologians of all spectrum especially in the Western culture have sliced and diced for centuries. Discussion on this matter continues in the West even after some reputable members of the scientific community such as Psychiatrist and Professor of Psychiatry, Dr Adrian Finkelstein marvelously documented in his book “Your Past Lives and The Healing Process” overwhelming evidence of past lives and the impact of past lives on current life healing process. Because some in the scientific community and scholars over the years have demonstrated lack of an open mind in understanding the dynamics and role of past lives, past lives influences on present life, and the impact in clinical field does not change the facts and what has been clinically validated by clinicians outside the West from the beginning of time.
Most books of spirituality, life and wisdom including the Bible clearly document life after death and reincarnation of souls. There is an overwhelming Christian belief in reincarnation of the death and rise of Chris. What I find ironic however, is that the Western Christians who celebrate with other Christians around the world the death and rise of Christ find it difficult to also believe in reincarnation of any other soul even when the Bible teaches that all departed souls must rise again. The truth of the matter is, Christ may be living among us today or, He may have come and gone multiple times.
Most would agree that the Western clinical frame work is grounded in fascinating “scientific theories.” It is fair to state that culture and religious belief played a major role in the framing of these clinical healing theories. However, even as fascinating as these theoretical frame works are for academic reasons, some would also agree there are some serious clinical healing concern with this model which attempts to fit every human wellness issue into a scientific theoretical frame. Many of us who approach clinical healing from humanistic and integrated mind-body-spirit approach would not have any problem with the model if humans are robots and do not comprised of these levels of life.
A clinical healing model which ignores some of the most important aspect of a person in clinical practice complicates healing. Ignorance of evaluating the entire person in clinical healing deepens and lengthens all levels of human pain. In many case, it unduly exacerbates the sufferings of individuals experiencing wellness crises. Some of the most painful aspects of human sufferings are the ones emanating from the mind and the spirit of a person.
The truth remains that all humans are the same regardless where one was born. Our differences are in our geography, cultures, and traditions within that culture. The differences in our physical characteristics can also be explained in large part by our gene, geography and nutrition. The fundamental experiences of life and living are the same. Our passion for life, our love for our families, our experience of joy and pain are the same.
Souls reincarnate every single second of every minute of the day. If you doubt that visit the maternity unit of your local hospitals. Clinical divination and practice outside the Western culture provide and document overwhelming evidence of reincarnation of souls and past lives influences on the present life. In many part of the world outside the West, folks who are interested in finding out personal past lives history are able to do so through clinical divination.
In 1987, following the tragic death of my mother’s oldest grandson who was about seventeen years old at the time of his death, my mother came to the United States to visit and have some healing time away from home. Mom also came with surprising however, exciting news. Few days after she arrived, she announced to us that we were expecting our first baby. Mom reported that we were expecting a boy and a reincarnation of my nephew. My nephew was “accidentally” shot to dead by a police officer when he was coming home in early hour of a morning from a party with his friends. My wife at the time argued that she was not pregnant and was not expecting a baby. My mom responded that she was.
Two weeks later, my wife’s physician confirmed she was pregnant. Ultra sound later confirmed my mother’s revelation. When my son was born he shared striking physical and behavior characteristics with my late nephew. One amazing behavior and past life carryover my son displayed prominently growing up was his emotional trauma towards gun and people in uniform. At the age when most boys his age played with toy guns and uniform armed figurines my son did not touch or play with those items. He was terrified by those play items. These items presented tremendous amount of emotional trauma to my son. He cried and wanted those items removed from him whenever they were introduced. He cried each time he saw a uniform armed professional. Our family were aware of who our child was in his previous life and explanation for his reactions towards certain events and items. My family also was aware of clinical healing intervention to help my son overcome his psychic disturbance from previous life. Those clinical healing steps were taken and my son’s past life psychic disturbances were resolved. These healing interventions allowed my son to have a normal childhood and played with just about any and every toy introduced to him thereafter. As a young adult however, he is not interested in guns and armed uniform professions.
Many soldiers come from long line family of soldiers where great grandfather, grandfather, father, uncles, and aunts all the way down to the young soldier. Some of these family members lost their lives in the battlefield. Souls (human beings) tend to reincarnate in families and regions that present the opportunity for individual souls to relive certain experiences consciously, subconsciously and through the dream state, as well as actualization of certain expected level of spiritual growth.
For example, people from the southern United stated generally are fascinated with guns and weaponry. Many would argue that folks from the Southern United States are obsessed with owning guns and involvement in military activities both organized and unorganized. These characteristics stem from the past lives civil war experiences of the people from this region of the country and also past lives rooted in fear of aggression from the government.
Another very good example is the Middle East where many souls reincarnate to fight old centuries same war of hate and intolerance many of these souls so passionately gave their lives to, and reincarnated many times over for the same war of hate. This region of the Middle East will continue to war just as they have for centuries, until there is a serious collective positive shift in consciousness among the people in this region extending to one another, deep feelings of tolerance, love and sincere desire for healing for their people and their land.
It is a serious clinical deficit anywhere on earth for a healing clinician of any modality to lack clinical investigative knowledge and skills to assess the entire person, and more importantly identify the influences of past lives experiences in current life disturbances. Because one does not believe deeply in the importance of clean air, water and proper nutrition does not change the fact that these are some of the most important fundamental qualities of healthy living. In the same manner also, because the Western clinical training does not understand and include in education and training of clinicians the impact and influences of past lives does not change the fact that past lives experiences significantly impact our current lives.
From the beginning of time without an exception, human beings survived by the principles of survival of the fittest. Many of these survival of the fittest involved wars and killing. Many of these killing also involve some of the most vicious human atrocities and tortures before death, such as in the case of holocaust and in all other wars fought around the globe.
All of these human experiences are recorded in our collective unconscious and stored deep in our soul (the spirit entity). It would be both spiritually and intellectually naïve to believe that life cames to an end the moment permanent consciousness (life) was squeezed out of our souls. African and Eastern theologians have taught for many centuries reincarnation of souls and the impact of past lives experiences on current lives. African clinicians also have applied clinical knowledge of past lives experiences in their clinical work for many centuries.
There are relatively very few things about war and activities of wars that are beneficial to positive human experience and personal growth. In time of war, people are exposed to explosive horrifying activities of war. These include the sounds and sights of war. These war experiences also include the worst of all incessant killing of lives, human torture of all levels, war atrocities, desecration of human dignities, and destruction of properties. Wars also present tremendous amount of human pains, sufferings and all levels of negative human emotion.
All of these horrifying war experiences present intense psychic disturbances to the lives of soldiers and civilians exposed to these experiences. These psychic disturbances evoke pressure and force the content of the collective unconscious (experiences of past lives) stored deep in the unconscious level of the mind to deal with those issues the conscious self was not ready and adequately prepared to deal with.
From the beginning of modern day military might to the present, soldiers in war fronts comprise of very young men and women. Despite the fact that these young soldiers are well trained in the mechanics and science of war, majority of them were at the early stages of gaining deep insight into life and developing life sustaining principles. Young soldiers are relatively inexperienced about life, life challenges and have minimal coping skills for brutal horrifying nature of war. Consequences of war are very unpredictable and very few human beings have coping skills for disturbances of the collective unconscious induced by horrors of war.
It is extremely difficult to predict what in the content of the collective unconscious (past lives carry-over) would be evoked when bombs start dropping, bullets start flying, shells start landing, neighborhoods start turning into rubble, and when killing and desecration of human bodies become a normal practice. Nothing prepares a soldier for the experience of losing a comrade in the battlefield and that soldier has to continue to advance leaving behind the dead body of his comrade. Every individual soldier or citizen in crossfire of war carries unique individual current and past lives experiences and would react differently to each warfront experience.
One can make a valid case that warfront deployment trauma coping skills training would be counterproductive to warfront psychological preparedness because of the nature of psychological mind set a soldier has to have to face the ugliness of battlefield. It would be surprising to find in the manuals of military warfront deployment, psychological preparedness coping skills training for trauma. Even if military warfront deployment training manual covers coping skills training for trauma, there is nothing on the face of earth that can adequately prepare a soldier especially, a young soldier for psychic disturbing experience of killing another soul, comrades fallen in battlefield or many of gruesome atrocities of war. Every single war ever fought has all components of these negative consequences and more.
Soldiers have been psychologically trained to accept killing as a profession and patriotic duty. However, there are deep adverse psychological, physiological and spiritual major changes that occur in every levels of a human being especially, in the spirit level deep inside the unconscious mind after taking a life of another. There is no human being that remains the same after taking a life of another soul even in the act of defense until deep clinical spiritual cleansing occur. After taking another human life, human psyche adopts a distorted and disturbed manifestation similar to that of an animal which violently tastes a human blood. The DNA of a human spirit, if I should use this term “DNA” for lack of a better term in this case is never the same after a person takes a life of another.
War induced psychic disturbances and other war induced psychological disturbances are complex in nature. Their roots are deeper than the Western style psychological assessments are capable of evaluating, understanding and addressing. These disturbances do not respond to chemical (medication) and other interventions prescribed by Western psychological module. Cases can be made that chemical intervention not only does not help in these case but indeed exacerbates presenting problems.
I personally feel troubled each time I come across Veterans from old wars who are still suffering war induced disturbances and are on multiple psychiatric medications for these issues. This cannot be happening. I cannot stand any longer by the sideline as a health and wellness healing professional and a specialist in mental health healing watch this endless enormous human suffering continue to go on in the lives of so many veterans and families. Many of these men and women sacrifice their lives for so many others. We cannot afford to continue to deal with these human issues in the same old ineffective ways we did in the past. We cannot allow this generation of soldiers experience the same post war pain and sufferings their fathers, grandfather and great-grandfathers endured after serving in warfronts.
BFIPD among military population linger mostly in the Western veteran population. In 1967, Eastern Nigeria seceded and declared independent from the Federal Republic of Nigeria. Eastern Nigeria became known as the Republic of Biafra. Nigerian government, with the support of the United States, Great Britain, France and many other countries in Europe who wanted access and control on massive supply of crude oil and other natural resources in the Eastern Nigeria waged war against the Eastern Nigeria.
Yours truly was a big ten years old at the time that looked like he was fifteen. As a young boy, my family and so many citizens of the Eastern Nigeria experienced some of the worst horrors and atrocities of war in that civil war which lasted till 1970. Our families were bombed out of our homes. We watched our homes burnt to the ground as we were fleeing our cities. Many of our family members and relatives did not survive the military might of the world’s super powers under the flag of Nigerian government.
When my neighboring city Asaba, fell into the control of the federal troops from Northern Nigeria, the federal troops immediately announced they wanted to make peace with the citizens and invited all citizens to the city’s events field for peace celebration. All male citizens who honored this invitation for peace celebration were gathered under the gun point by the federal troops and were massacred. Many of them were buried alive in that field in shallow graves. The women were mercilessly raped in the presence of their children, the city was desecrated and burnt down. These types of horrific war experiences can be equated with some of the documented war horrors many from the Western have tremendous amount of difficulties healing from.
At the end of the war, families reunited with surviving loved ones. Soldiers came home to their families. Communities celebrated the lives of survivors, began the healing process for all who did not survive and rebuilding of their respective communities.
It is important to note that our communities did not have veteran support system in place for any type of post war assistance. There were no Western style community mental health centers and resources to help war survivors address BFIPD and other war related mental health issues. What our communities had and still have is their ancient integrated healing ceremonies that effectively addressed the roots of war induced disturbances by honoring all components of a person’s psychic experiences. These healing ceremonies effectively heal the wounds and disturbances of war and give citizens who suffered BFIPD their lives back.
As a young boy who survived battlefield and horrific experience of war, participating in these healing ceremonies is one of the most treasured gifts of life the elders of my community gave me and the people of my community especially, young people following that horrific war experiences. These healing ceremonies became my wellness foundation moving forward with life after the war. These post war healing ceremonies is the difference between myself, the citizens of my communities and war veterans in the Western culture who came home from war and received Western style mental health care that has minimal understanding of the dynamics of the human spirit, and which also ignores in clinical healing practice the impact of past lives experience on the current life.
These post war healing ceremonies are deep therapeutic mind-body-spirit cleansing. These ceremonies go straight to the roots of psychic disturbances and heal the unconscious levels of the mind. These healing ceremonies also help civilians and soldiers who suffered physical wound from war accept respective new physical self and help bring about a healthy integration of the mind, body and spirit. The healing ceremonies bring about inner peace, healing closures and inner well being that allow people affected by horrors of war to share their experience and lessons of war with ease, minimal disturbance and without re-traumatization.
These healing ceremonies also give people who experienced war induced psychic disturbances inner rebirth. They strengthen inner dimensions of self and renew individual’s purpose for life and joy of living. The healing ceremonies help individuals gain deep insight into the values and respect for human soul and life. These healing ceremonies strengthen and psychically empower individuals who suffered horrors of war to embrace life’s new challenges. They usher renewed healthy mind, body and spirit which allow individuals and communities collectively to move forward, also with renewed appreciation of life and living.
So many young boys of my age fought in that war on the Biafra side. At the end of the war following the post war healing ceremonies, we all picked ourselves up and went back to school and job trainings. Adults, including those who previously served in the Nigerian armed forces who also came home to fight and defend the rights of Biafra for independence went about the business of rebuilding our respective communities as well as taking care of their families and the communities at large.
The war atrocities and psychic disturbances experienced by boys of my generation on the Biafra side of Nigerian civil war would have psychologically crippled for life young people in the West who would have experienced similar war horrors. If that had been in the West, majority of us would be on medications for “PTSD” and multiple psychological diagnostic labels. There are so many Vietnam vets in the United States still suffering post war disturbance and on psychotropic medications. That in itself is a human tragedy.
It is time for a major shift in paradigm. We cannot allow this generation of war veterans to suffer the same set of emotional and psychic pain veterans from previous generation suffered especially, when there are healing solutions for their presenting post war problems. It would be a travesty if the healing professionals working with war veterans continue to practice with this new generation of veterans the same clinical interventions that thus far have yielded minimal positive result in the lives of veterans.
The evidence is right in our families that these old interventions are ineffective because we have millions of war veterans around the world particularly, Vietnam veterans in the United States still suffering “PTSD.” It is now also established that chemical interventions has not healed these veterans. One can make a strong case that chemical interventions actually prevent true healing from taking place in the lives of individuals fighting demons of battlefield.
It is well documented that battlefield veterans continue to experience numerous problems in many areas of their lives including family and other relationships, career, chemical dependency and inability to maintain quality healthy living. It is unhealthy for soldiers and their families to come home from battlefield and pretend all are well. The truth of the matter is all are not well. There are specific integrated healing interventions for soldiers and civilians who experienced horrific events of war and battlefields that must take place before these individual can go back to normal, happy and productive lives for themselves, their families and respective communities at large. These healing interventions not only should take place before soldiers leave battlefield and returning home but also after they are home.
Time has come when society can no longer think that the war is over for the country, soldiers and their loved ones the moment troops are home, their community comes out waving flags in heroes’ welcome home parades. These welcome home parades are wonderful ways of communities showing appreciation for soldiers’ sacrifice. However, many of these soldiers feeding into the community emotion of pride and patriotism adopt soldiers’ mentality of self minimization of the impact of their physical and emotional wound in the battlefield. Solders need more than parades. They need more than anything else, healing care that restores their inner peace and wellness so that they can go back enjoying life and living again.
These battlefield disturbances do not magically disappear if healing process did not take place. Even when soldiers are not presenting immediate signs of disturbances, healing must still take place in a timely manner. When not addressed in a timely manner, BFIPD has an ugly way of manifesting when a soldier is completely removed from activities of war and normalcy appears to have returned in the life of the soldier. When these issues manifest late in the life of a soldier, it has tendencies to seriously disrupt the soldier’s life both in relationship and career. These disturbances induce unhealthy use of chemicals, chemical addiction, dependency and other life crisis.
Time has also come when clinical healing professionals must recognize that issues soldiers in battlefield come home with are beyond clinical training and education offered in current training of healing clinicians. The old Freudian psychotherapy and psychiatry have proven ineffective for these set of human issues. Also, this old age paradigm that all clinical healing issues and interventions must fit into a scientific box has become a disservice to health and wellness consumers.
I am called to the healing profession to make a difference, help bring changes that truly heal people we serve and bring about deep sustained healing experience in the lives and wellness of health consumers. Healing is not in the pill. I and so many fellow survivors of war I know from the part of the world I grew up in have never taken one single psychiatric pill for war induced disturbances. We all moved on with our lives and joy of living as young men following the war and post war healing ceremonies. The same is also true about the adults who survived the war. It is always a devastating and heart breaking experience personally for me each time I encounter in clinical field veterans of wars still fighting demons of wars long after they have been removed from battlefields. This cannot continue to happen. There is a solution.
Modern day science and innovation has given doctors in reconstruction and rehabilitative medicine amazing tools for helping soldiers who suffered serious physical and bodily wounds in the battlefield. These doctors in healing institutions such the Walter Reed National Military Center have done some of the most amazing work in their field with these soldiers. For these soldiers however, their physical and body reconstruction is just one step in their desired quality of life. Body reconstruction and physical rehabilitation does not stop the horror dreams that constantly wake these individuals up at the middle of the night and other cascade of serious BFIPD that will continue to hunt these soldiers’ quality of life if not properly and adequately addressed.
I have been working on BFIPD and have developed contemporary healing interventions specifically for battlefield veterans who experienced horrors of war. I and many from the part of the world I grew up in received these healing interventions after our lives were torn apart by horrific civil war. Time has proven that these post war healing interventions are evidence based. Thousands of young people and adults who experienced horrors of that war and received these healing interventions have and are living normal and happy lives today. Many of those young people are now adults with families of their own today. Many of these young survivors today are lawyers, doctors, engineers, college professors, accountants, health care professionals, corporate executives and in all fields of live services. Yours truly happens to be one of those young war kids. Think about this, these young people experienced some of the worst war horrors at the time boys their age were thinking about their first kiss from a girl.
I am offering to assist in training and consultation with military psychologists, psychiatrist and mental health clinicians, colleges and training institutions in gaining deep clinical understanding of the dynamics of BFIPD and healing interventions to help soldiers and individual who are experiencing BFIPD heal. This is not the time to serve special interest groups who benefit from status quo and interventions that have not helped these soldiers heal and give them inner peace to enjoy life again. This is a matter of national security for countries who engaged in wars. We as a society cannot ignore this human issue. We cannot afford to waste the best of our human resources from this generation of young soldiers. We must take lessons from the past. We wasted so many human resources from the previous wars. We cannot repeat the same mistake again. So much resource is spent on war veterans. However, it is difficult for anyone who does not have inner peace and is unhealthy to hold down a job, be a good father or mother and a productive happy citizen. When a Nation sent their young men and women to wars, that Nation must step up and do whatever it takes to give these soldiers back quality of life and living. We would be wasting another generation of soldiers if we fail to step up and embrace a new approach about how we move forward helping soldiers heal their mind, body and spirit after we put them through horrors of war. These healing interventions are not only the most effective healing care we have ever given to our war veterans but also the most cost effect intervention we have ever spent our dollars on.
By Dr Chris O’Banye
http://internationalinstituteforwellnessandintegratedhealing.com
When Events in Our Lives Shake the Foundation of Our Beliefs: Finding blessings beneath life difficult Challenges
From the beginning of time human charter is built from the challenges of life we endured. As long as we live we will always face life challenges. Many times however, life challenges are so cruel that our values and strong rooted existential beliefs are rattled to their cores.
Citizens of the world have witnessed in the past decade some of the worst natural disasters around the globe. These events shake the core of the foundation of our individual spiritual beliefs and in the construct we call “God.” These natural disasters have raised some serious existential questions in the minds of many.
In the case of Japan, within a matter of hours lives and years of treasures were reduced to rubbles with absolute zero measures of prejudice. We witnessed human lives and treasures violently desecrated and trashed right in our eyes. We saw children and senior citizens, very rich and very poor, places of worship and military might all trashed and crumbled under the rubbles of the great nature’s might.
Those of us watching from a distance cannot help to observe in the faces of survivors devastation and just absolute demoralization of mind, body and spirits of the citizens. The rich who was enjoying his/her mansion moments before nature struck, suddenly swept away and instantly became homeless; a poor in material who probably woke up that morning and expressed to the universe a heartfelt gratitude for the comfort and joy of whatever it was life offered for that day also suddenly lost into the darkness of faith. We saw hospitals with new born babies who had not even began life either chocked out of life or began a long and difficult journey into life because of serious injuries.
These difficult life challenges present numerous existential questions about the meaning of life and the source of life. Even the most spiritually wise among us can admit having many unanswered question about life and the meaning of it. On the one hand, those who do not believe in a Higher Power engaged in minimal inner discussions about the meaning of these events outside scientific principles.
On the other hand, those who believe in a” Higher Power” and divine source for all existence engage in various levels of spiritual inner thoughts, serious questions and in many cases, a shocking total devastation to the foundation of what one believes in. One wonder how on earth this all loving Higher Being and creator of beauties, love and comfort at the same time can be very cruel and inconsiderate.
Many theologians hold the teaching belief that such questions should not be asked of the Creator. I beg to differ. I strongly believe that freedom is the first and the most sacred foundation of human existence. These questions are not only humanly legitimate to be asked but also spiritually healthy to explore and investigate everything one hold in one’s belief system, including the existence and workings of the Higher Being or God, whichever term you prefer to use.
A believer in God or Higher Being should never be afraid of having internal conversation with his Creator and questioning everything one believes does not make spiritual sense or in alliance with one’s spiritual and existential core beliefs. Difficult life challenges present such moments when it is within our spiritual right to question our existences and events affecting our existence. Finding such meaning is healthy. It helps strengthen our spiritual coping mechanism and in most cases helps us validated our core existential beliefs system and values. In many cases gaining such deep spiritual insight and discovering life meanings and purpose open up a higher dimension of self, and catalyze the changes one needs to make in one’s life to achieve a happier life.
Occurrence of these natural devastations always tak me a few years back to a one man’s natural disaster. I had a gentle man who was admitted under my care for chemical dependency treatment in a residential treatment facility. This gentle man lost his wife the previous year after several years of battle with cancer. Within six months after his wife passed, all three of his children died in car crash. Prior to these trying devastating events in this man’s life, he believed in God. He loved his wife and children. He went to church regularly. This man who dove deep into drugs to manage his emotional hurt and traumatic events in his life exhibited tremendous degree of anger toward his creator and even questioned the existent of one.
One of the mystery lessons of life is that in every life’s difficult challenge are buried amazing life’s blessings for the person facing the challenge. This is true for individuals, so also for organizations and nations. The more difficult the challenge the bigger is the blessing/s. What stands in the way of one realizing the blessings presented during difficult times is our attitude, inability to maintain spiritual consciousness, anger, our focus on pain and difficulties of the event/s
Our blessings may come in simple but powerful things in life such as deep insight into love for life and appreciation for living. It could be found in our appreciation of people in our lives we are blessed with. In some case it could be also found in the self-awakening that once perceived valued possessions amount to very little in your overall self, happiness and wellbeing. The blessings could be found in deep appreciation of human kindness in a simple glass of cold clean water from a stranger; or it could be found in a simple but very powerful realization of how easily one can lose everything in a split seconds and fall from penthouse to a doghouse in a matter of minutes or hours. The blessings could also be found in the manifestation of one’s prayers for moving from an old house to a new one with better amenities, or a desperate need to rebuild an old falling country/city, business infrastructure with modern technical know-how made possible as a result of natural disaster.
I have no way of telling what your blessing/s is from your difficult life challenges today. What I can safely predict for sure and with all the fibers I am made of is that there are blessings in your life challenges today. I am convinced without any atom of doubt that you will find your blessings in your difficult life challenge. However, you must stare life right in the eyes and challenge life back. Life rewards those who challenge it. There is always something special in every one of our lives’ challenges despite all the hurt, pain and immediate difficulties.
Take heart. Take your focus away from your pain. Do not be angry. Come home. Come home to that special place in you, inside the sanctuary of your soul where all is peaceful and seek for your blessings. If you seek, you will find. Do not be afraid. Do not be afraid of holding conversation with your Higher Being. Do not be bashful or intimidated about seeking for meanings and purpose from the events in your life. There is no coincidence in life and your challenge is not a coincidence. Embrace your life challenges. You will find healing and happiness when you find meaning and purpose in your life challenges.
Dr Chris O’Banye
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Overweight Generation: The root causes of why we have become an overweight generation.
One of my blog readers recently sent me an email asking for my opinion about a weight watchers program she recently signed up for. Her request presented me with this opportunity to honestly address never reported truth about global obesity and obese related health problems.
Weight watchers industry is a multi-billion dollar industry. There is a new weight watch program almost every other month claiming to keep the body weight off for good. There is one or two fitness center on almost every street corner in most major cities around the world. Most restaurants, including major fast food restaurants have taken some reasonable but minimal measures in the right direction to cut fat and reduce unhealthy food elements from their menus. Yet, almost majority of the world population including children are increasingly overweight and clinically obese.
From wellness and healing principles perspectives, any individual engaging in weight-loss program must have a wellness evaluation and a basic education about nutrition and body physiology. Individuals engaging in weight-loss program should be able to answer the following questions—are you well; do you know what your body composition analysis reports; is your body physiology ideal for the body size and weight you wish to attain. Everybody is not built for, and cannot attain a size six without compromising healthy functions of major organs of the body such as the heart. Oprah Winfrey is a living example of the difficulties of forcing a size in a body frame nature does not design for such size. One must be very concerned about weight-loss program that drops rapidly the body weight and size. Physiologically, nature did not design the body major organs especially, the heart to handle the physiological trauma of rapid weight loss. There are so many factors in play about your body weight gain that most weight-loss programs will not and do not address. I will delve into these issues later. Finally, is your mind, body, spirit in harmony and healthy? Will the program bring healing in your life?
Obesity and obese related health problems have been a major world health concerns for many years and wrecks the world health care budget every year. The Unites States alone have spent billions of dollars of health care budget on obese and obese related health problems alone. In my home state Oklahoma, obesity and obese related health problems cost the state approximately three billion dollars a year. Even as the state and federal government spend these astronomical beyond the eyes can see resources on obese and obese related health problems, the weight scales keep tipping over, obese and obese related death keep climbing, the states and national health care costs keep rising and there is minimal progress to show for money and resources devoted to combating obesity and obese related health problems.
Neuro Clinical Psychologist Personality Type
Psychologists & Neuro-Clinical Psychologists
What type of personality type is needed to become a Neuro- clinical psycologist? This is a question sent to me by one of my subscribers. I appreciate the interest shown by the person in understanding the personality type of neuro-clinical psychologist before deciding whether the profession is the right one her.
Before we understand ‘What type of personality type is needed to become a Neuro- clinical psycologist‘, we need to know the type of work clinical psychologists do.Clinical Psychology is a branch of medicine which investigates the depths and complexities of the mind. This analysis is done for two purposes. One is a general purpose where the clinical psychologist studies the workings of the mind and its influence on the body to develop a better understanding of how the human system works. The second purpose is to help people in therapy and improve their condition through mind-body healing principles.
Psychologists study the mind. The intricate workings of the mind and an in depth study of cognition, behavior, and affect forms the main study of the psychologists.
The specialties of this profession range from psychotherapists to clinical psychologists. Psychotherapists offer mental health services to clients. Clinical psychologists perform laboratory research and constantly strive to understand the workings of the mind. The subfileds of psychology include evolutionary psychology, mathematical psychology, abnormal psychology, social psychology, cognitive psychology, transpersonal psychology and neuro psychology.
What do Clinical Psychologists do?
The Anatomy of The Mind, Thoughts and Thinking: Learn the laws of your mind and how you can use the miracle powers of your mind to heal your body and achieve your dreams.
The most complex aspect of a human being is the mind. Most people think the human mind is our brain. No its not. There is no anatomy of human body labeled as the mind. This simply means we do not have any body part such as the leg, arm, kidney, heart or lungs called the mind. A physician cannot operate on or remove the human mind just as it is the case with any part human anatomy.
The fore fathers of Psychology wrote extensively on the subject of the mind. Many of them addressed the subject in such complex psychological language attempting to fit their discussions of the subject in scientific terms. As a result many of their writings make absolutely minimal sense, and in some cases meaningless to none academicians.
However, Dr G. Jung, in my opinion is one of these fore fathers of psychology and psychiatry who made extra ordinary effort to understand the subject of the mind and explained the dynamics of it in ways that make it somewhat easier for most to understand. Dr Jung was also a lonely voice among the fore fathers of psychology and psychiatry brave enough to connect the mind to the spiritual aspect of us at the time Dr S. Freud and others completely ignored the spiritual self.
Before, the fore fathers of psychology and psychiatry, scholars in Africa studied and taught extensively on the subject of the mind, body and spirit. Scholars from all over the world especially from the East came to Africa for various studies ranging from Theology, Spirituality, Poetry and Medicine to architecture. Very few citizens of the world are aware that the first Higher Institution of learning in the world is the University of Timbuktu in Africa. Jung expressed in one of his writings that his experience in Africa was the most memorable and enlightening experience of his life.
Human being is created with the mind, the body and the spirit. It is difficult to discuss the mind without confusing it with the spirit because the mind and the spirit have very close connection.
The mind is made up of three levels—the conscious, subconscious, and unconscious.
Chemical Addicted and Substance Abused Mind Is an Undisciplined Mind: Learn how Chemical addiction and substance have affected the minds and brains of our youth, resulting in failing grades.
The cable channel MSNBC started this past weekend a month long discussion on crisis of education in our schools and ways to improve the ever falling grades of our youth. The problem with the discussion is that participants continue talk academic mambo jumbo and ignore to address the big elephant in the room. Just as it’s the case most of the time with most debates on some of our nation’s crisis, participating groups tend to address issues that benefit their special interest groups and constituents. What most of the time never get to be addressed are the real issues of the people involved. In this case the root of our youth’s failing grade and the fundamental relationship of the problems to poor outcome of our education system.
The big elephant in the room that every group overlooks or avoids to address is the fact that over 75% of our youth ages ten to seventeen are either dependant on drugs or are abusing substance/s. This is a conservative number bases on my data working with youths for over a decade now. This number also comes from recent revelation by the youths who came into State’s residential treatment Center I also currently work in. Majority of these kids revealed that eight of ten kids in their various schools are addicted to one and in many cases multiple substances or chemical.
Few years ago, when I helped opened the very first Children (ages 10-17) Crisis Unit in the state of Oklahoma, chemical dependence and substance abuse was related in 8 out of 10 kids admitted for crisis stabilization. 9 out of 10 these kids admitted disliked school and had failing grades or had been kicked out of school for disruptive behavior and in some cases possession of chemical. Almost every single one of the kids has discipline and disruptive behavior issues. Many of these children simply go to school for socialization. A good number of them go to school not to learn anything but to trade and sell drugs by their own admission.
Here is the tragedy of the drug epidemic among our youth. The ten year old kids I worked with few years ago are in treatment with me today as older kids. They are still not making good grades; do not like school or had been kicked out of schools and absolutely have minimal plans for the future. They maintain an average of eight weeks of sobriety after treatment before they were back again to the revolving doors of co-occurring treatment Centers.
Chemical Addiction and Substance Abuse War In our Nation’s College Campuses: Battle fields every parent and caring citizen must join in waging.
Parents, it’s that time of the year again when we send off our young adult children to college. If you do not already know, our Nations college campuses have become the war zones for chemical dependence and substance abuse. This is a special plea to every parent. Please follow the link bellow. Be sure you read the article and watch this socking video on chemical abuse among our college kids. Encourage your college age children also to read and watch the video before they leave home for college. This story and video will give them a different perspective and much greater insight into some of the dangerous myths about academic success they will be facing upon arriving in their respective college campuses.
The enemy—drugs these college kids are facing; some of them for the first time is mean, dirty, slimy, and vicious. It does not fight fair. It does not respect color of your skin and don’t care who you are. It’s more vicious than a pit bulldog and a lion put together. When it grabs hold of a person, it does not let go until it destroys that person or left an indelible damage in the person’s life. It does not stop there. It drags the person’s loved ones with it too and destroys their joy and love for that person.
The drug dealers are no longer the pimps and low lives in the street corners. You would be shocked to learn in this video and article who the modern day drug pushers are.
Please feel free to contact me if I can answer any question for you and your family. You do not and will not owe me a dime for any time I spent answering your question or interacting with you on this matter. It would all be worth it for all of us if you and I can save one young man or woman from the claws of this monster. I battle this enemy every day over control of our young people. I cannot fight this war alone. I need you!
By Dr Chris O’Banye
The Blessings of Failures: Mind-Body-Spirit Connection.
Every single one of us has a purpose in life. Many of us have good idea what this purpose is. Some of us do not. Not knowing what your life purpose is does not change the fact that you have one. What is so amazing about life is that the universe has a way of directing us to our life purpose. All we have to do is pay attention to our lives’ twists and turns.
Many of us who have a sense of our life purpose think there is only way of getting there. Straight line is not always the shortest distance as we learned in Geometry. There are so many ways to get to our lives’ destination. Usually, all of us start in a straight line direction. Along the way our ship got stirred in different direction/s other than the one we thought is the only direction. Many of us usually view these twists and turns of our ship as failure.
There is no failure. What we have in pursuit of our dreams and life purpose is redirection. The ship of life takes different directions and makes several stops. You must be mindful there is always a bag of blessings to be picked up at each stop. There is also always a skill/s to be perfected and life lessons to be learned at each stop. These skill/s and lessons are so crucial and very much needed in strengthening and molding us for success to come. Make no mistake about this, you short change yourself if you waste your time worrying about these stops. You have also short changed yourself if you quit and call your experience a failure or call yourself a failure because you do not like how long the trip takes and how many stops along the way there is to make.
Every successful person failed so many times. If you want to succeed you must risk failing. If you doubt it look at how many years Michael Jordan and John Elway played plaid in their respective leagues before they won championships. Do you realize Babe Ruth struck out 2000 times for every I000 homeruns. Bill Belichick had a losing record almost every where he coached before he started winning with New England Patriots. Do you realize also how many times President Lincoln failed in life and defeated in politics before he was elected the President?
You must not quit. Many people who quit came very close to victory and success before they gave up. Perseverance is a virtue you must hold very there to your soul. Feel passionate about your dream/s. Go after it with everything in you! Do not be intimidated and afraid of failing! Success is the price for failing.
By Dr Chris O’Banye
Suicide Among the Armed Services Population: National crisis of a serious magnitude.
The recent report of increasing suicide among the armed services population is an issue of a serious magnitude. It is a National crisis. What this report represents is a snap shot of what is about to hit every segment of this nation’s economic and labor structure, and may be the world. This is my third warning article in the past sixty days in which I sounded strong warning about the state of our youth’s mental health and chemical dependency crisis. This recent report (Army News Service, July 29, 2010) validates my recent blog articles reporting on the state of mental health and chemical dependence epidemic among our young people.
I have been working with young people for over a decade in various capacities and in different clinical settings. I have enormous interest in young people and studied extensively evidence-based Children and adolescent disorders and their treatments. I strongly believe a generation is as good as the one they left behind. This country is leaving behind a generation in crisis if we do not pay attention to this generation of young people. Our young people are in serious mental health, chemical dependency and addiction crisis. I have not seen it this bad and it keeps getting worst. Because of their long history of chemical dependence, many of them suffer from what we characterize in clinical field as chemical induced mental disorders. This co-existence of mental illness and chemical dependence call co-occurring disorders affect every areas of these young peoples’ lives among which are school, job training and personal responsibilities.
Many of them failed out of schools and job trainings. They have been in and out of juvenile detentions, mental health and chemical dependence treatment facilities prior to becoming of enlistment age into the military. In many cases, their mental illness is camouflaged by their addiction and addictive behaviors. Many of them are suicidal and have attempted numerous times to take their lives. Most of them are on multiple psychiatric medications. Majority of them are not interested in sobriety. Many of them are not capable of holding down a job and are only interested in doing very minimal with the least possibly challenges.
Majority of these young people use the military as the only avenue to rebuild self-worth and hopes for a decent life. Their mentality is that they would survive the military life once they make it through the basic training. For some of them, attraction for the military is part of the dynamics of their mental illness. The problem is majority of these young men and women are not mentally and emotionally fit for the military. It does not seem the military training instructors and commanding structure is trained to deal with the spectrum of complex issues these young men and women bring into the military.
In a national crisis of this magnitude, citizens wonder who is to be blamed. There is a lot of blames to go around. However, finger pointing is not important at this time. There are some clear crystal facts—our young people are in serious trouble. The future of this generation is in danger unless all of us do something right now. The military recruiting system that brings these young people into a system they are not capable of succeeding in is broken.
One can build a valid case that the military’s recruiting screening and assessment tools at the point of enlistment is obsolete and inadequate. This obsolete and inadequate system breeds a weak military strength, and young men and women who believe they have failed again. Their failure and frustrations with life challenges induce increase dependence on chemical and addiction to other substance. Their acute dependence on chemical and addiction to other substances further complicate already existing mental illness leading to increasing rate of suicides among military population recently reported. Let’s face the facts; majority of these young men and women were already suffering from chemical dependence and mental illness before enlisting in the military.
If the military intend to have these young men and women serve despite their mental health and chemical dependence and substance abuse issues, the system has to be in place to identify their disorders and needs at the point of enlistment and adequate care provided to address those issues once they are there. The wave of what we are beginning to witness among the military population is the tip of the ice berg about what the future of the labor force in this country will looks like unless this nation moves quickly and do something today. This crisis will top the AIDS epidemic and will threaten the foundation of our economic and societal stability if nothing is done now. Wake up America!
By Dr Chris O’Banye
Ask Not What Anyone Can Do for You, Ask What You Can Do for Yourself and Someone Else: Mind-body-spirit connection.
Life presents so many challenges to us. The truth is regardless how difficult these challenges are, every single challenge life presents to us builds character, makes us tougher, wiser and richer. Many times these challenges force us to either fight for our blessings or get out of way. The difference between the winners of life challenges and the losers is that the winner seeks the wisdom in every life challenge and understands there are many blessings in disguise. The winner also understands the power to win at all time resides in us. Winners understand we have the power to change any situation that does not make us happy. He/s places no blame on anything or anybody; points no finger; demands for no special treatments; gets up at each life stumble, dusts him or herself up and keep moving forward. The winner always keeps an eye on a hand/s he/s can pull up along the way.
The loser on the other hand, refuses to face life’s challenges, sees minimal blessings in disguise of life challenges, and will not put up a fight to challenge life. He/s cries, complains, and blames everybody and every circumstance. The loser point fingers at everyone and everything but to himself or herself. He/s falls and sits right where he/s is. The loser refuses to get up. He/s makes demands for things he/s has not earned. The loser would never ask for what he/s can do for anyone. A loser simply takes.
Few years ago while I was in adult chemical dependence and addiction in-patients treatment Center, there was a knock at my office door this lovely morning. I opened the door and there was my boss and a young lady in a wheel chair. My boss introduced the young lady to me and stated: “This is Dr…… She is a Psychiatric resident doctor and would be spending some months with us. I felt her first few weeks with you would be a very strong and good start for her.” I could not help to reflect and admire the strength and drive in this lady. I could not help also to vision the challenges this lady had to endure to be in my office that morning, taken into account her physical challenges. Her strength and determination to challenge life took me to a place in my soul where I felt the need to celebrate this lady, Stevie Wonder, late Ray Charles and people like these human beings who reached the pinnacle of life destroying all sorts of life challenges along their ways despite enormous physical challenges that would be ordinarily quite acceptable for excuses.
Each time I read about the lives of some of the most successful human beings, I come away with strong reinforcing validation of my belief in the amazing inherent power every soul possess from our creator. Power so great some books of wisdom characterize as capable of moving mountain. Life most costly lesson many of us never learn is that we give up this power once we begin to believe our faith lies in the hands of others, our elected official, government and some entity other than ourselves.
For so many years, Blacks gave away their inherent power by blaming and pointing fingers at Whites and every other conceivable circumstance. Majority of Blacks who rose up the pinnacle of life neglected the fact that success is a group blessings and not an individual achievement. You cannot look at a tree and say—what a forest. Today, the Whites have fallen into the very same trap by blaming Blacks, immigrants, elected officials, the government, Chinese, the Japanese, everybody and their dogs. The tide of life is so difficult to turn once you give this power up. This is as true for individuals as it is for nations and group of people. The true lesson today however is that the human race has melted into one. Challenge yourself to pull yourself up and also pull someone with you regardless the color of the skin. Ask what you can do for yourself and others. One tree does not make a forest.
By Dr Chris O’Banye


